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Message from the Dean

Dear Members of the Class of 2013:

It has been moving to see the Harvard community come together as it has coped with the tragic accident and death of one of its beloved members, Ariel Shaker ’10.  The outpouring of support for Ariel’s family and friends has made an important difference and served as a reminder to all of us about what really matters in our day-to-day existence.

Those of us working with your class have noticed, and commented on, your concern for one another.  I want to use this opportunity to encourage you to extend that same concern, and be more active interventionists, in social situations when your friends or acquaintances appear to be making questionable decisions.  Excessive drinking this fall has landed a number of your classmates in area hospitals.  It may be tempting to think “that’s none of my business,” or “I can’t afford the time or energy to make an impact,” or “I’m reluctant to risk a friendship;” but real caring demands your hanging in there and seeking (or providing) help before things get out of control.  It may be as simple as separating your classmate from the trouble, or contacting your proctor, UHS (617-495-5711), or the Harvard University Police (617-495-1212).

If there are ways that your resident dean or I can be helpful, please don’t hesitate to let us know.  We, like you, value this community.  Its strength, of course, derives from individuals taking responsibility, not just for themselves, but for one another.  There is no grade given for that, but, when all is said and done, nothing matters more.

Sincerely,

Tom Dingman

Dean Freshmen